A queer home

Where you
belong entirely

A community-owned home and gathering place — sex-positive by design, democratically governed, and built to last.
A place to live, to gather, to explore, and to build something that outlives us.

To establish and steward a community-owned, democratically governed home and gathering place where queer people of all genders and orientations can live, meet, and explore in a sex-positive environment free from shame.
What we are

Three things, inseparably

01

A home

Resident members live here, share in its upkeep, and are part of its governance. A real home with real belonging.

Residency →
02

A community

Membership is open to those who share the mission. The community shapes what this place becomes.

Membership →
03

An events space

Queer events, sex-positive nights, workshops, and gatherings. A space where the programming emerges from the community.

Events →

Lusthaven is the queer association shaping the culture, programming, and community life.
The Haven Collective SC/CV is the cooperative working to acquire and steward a permanent home for this project.

Together, we’re building a space where queer people can root, rest, play, and create — not for a night, but for a lifetime.

The space

A castle.
Genuinely.

Our target property is a historic Flemish estate — a protected monument with grounds, outbuildings, and the kind of physical presence that changes how a community feels about itself.

The renovation is being designed to honour the heritage of the building while creating spaces that are genuinely ours: a playspace, a communal kitchen, event rooms, guest accommodation, and places to simply be.

About the property →
6.4
Hectares of grounds
25
Guest rooms
10
Community members
1780s
Castle built

Ready to be part of this?

There are several ways to get involved — as a community member, a resident, or a lender.